Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Happy Chinese New Year!


Some sheep, a harp, and 1000 NT in a red envelope…..sounds like the title of a chapter in a mystery novel, doesn't it? :)

Happy Year of the Sheep! This week we ate a lot of food. 10 meal appointments in 5 days...I think I won't need to eat for another 5 years! (everything closes during the six day holiday and so the missionaries eat with the members of the church) Hahaha! The best way I can think to describe Chinese New Year is that it's like Thanksgiving, but with 2 meals, and rather than pilgrims, football, and turkey, we have Buddhist gods, bai-bai, fireworks, and Taiwanese food. And repeat that every day for 6 days in a row. So maybe not much like Thanksgiving at all..... :D

I have a lot of pictures and descriptions of all the food we ate, since that took up most of the week, but I'll tell you about some of the fun things that happened here.

First, after a year of searching..... I FOUND A HARP IN TAIWAN. We were riding our bikes when I turned my head to see a little folk harp sitting in the window of a music school. I immediately stopped and called out to Sis Pieper to turn around. We went in and asked the front desk lady, and I guess they teach harp there. I didn't get to play on it, but I did get a pic, and we were able to strike up a gospel conversation with the lady at the front desk. 

Second, H. That guy. He is one of my favorite investigators ever. It was really neat this week to see how he is being converted to the gospel. At our last lesson he thanked us for talking to him and sharing the gospel with him. Then he said that since we have started sharing with him, everything in his life has gone more peacefully. He said that when he can't sleep or feels restless, he'll say a prayer and then that feeling of peace comes right back. He loves when we come to visit him. 

Third, hong bao (red envelopes). The tradition at Chinese New Year is to give family and close friends a red envelope with money inside. When we were out tracting, we were talking to an older couple and gave them a hong bao with some tracts inside, after assuring them that there was no money inside. (it's rude to open a gift in front of the giver and we wanted him to know there was no money inside so he wouldn't feel badly)  He told us to wait a minute and the wife came back with a bag of peanuts for each of us and two hong bao, which we could tell had money inside. We tried our hardest for a solid 5 minutes to not accept the money, but there was no escaping. So we took it, and opened it later to find a 1000 NT bill in each one. We donated the money to the general church missionary fund. :D But it was really fun to be part of a cultural tradition, even though we couldn't accept the money.


On to the food...We made dumplings with the family of the Relief Society president! They tried to make everything all festive for us by giving us hong bao and teaching us the background of why we eat dumplings at Chinese new year (it is remarkably similar to the story in the bible of the Israelites in Egypt and the destroying angel...passover!)

We went with a church member and her kids to that same temple that Sis Pieper and I visited a few weeks ago for p-day. It was PACKED...sort of reminded me of what I think the atmosphere would have been like when Christ cleansed the temple. People everywhere, vendors selling food and incense and other bai-bai materials. I'm not sure how to translate the name of this food to English, but it's glutinous rice ball with pig intestine inside. It was actually pretty good, as long as you thought about it being pork meat and not intestine. We also ate hot pot with one of our English class students and her family, KFC and pizza with our ward mission leader and his wife (and his adorably forgetful grandmother), and traditional taiwanese foods like sausage, rice noodles, soup, tofu, rice, and little sesame treats with a family from the ward.  Then there were the turnip cakes, meat and seafood filled cabbage.  Did any of that food look good to you?  You will love Taiwanese food someday! I will make it for you in the summer!

Love you!
me :D


Thursday, February 19, 2015

Cookie, Cookie, Cookie Starts with....


餅.
Hahaha- thought I was going to say 'C', did you? There are actually no 'C's in Chinese! :D But the characters for cookie in chinese is 餅乾  [bing3 gan1]. 

This week was filled with cookies! And it was fantastic! 

-Cookie experience #1: I decided to try out the cookie mix Aunt Linda gave me and make it in the rice cooker. It worked out pretty well! And it was perfect because last week when we called one of the sister companionships in the zone and asked what we could do for them, they said (jokingly), "make us chocolate chip cookies!" And then we did! Fun.

-Cookie experience #2: In an effort to try to strengthen our investigator, M, and help her daughter have interest in the church, we got together with them and a member sister and her daughter to bake cookies. It was really fun and just reminded me of making cookies and other goodies at home with my siblings

-Cookie experience #3: On Saturday, the youth in our ward invited us to come teach them how to make cookies for mutual. Most of them had never made cookies before (people here don't bake) and they had a blast. A couple of them invited friends, and we were able to connect with some potential investigators, as well as teach the youth what being a missionary is like. 

-Cookie experience #4: While on exchanges, we found a "car tire" cake stand with oreo inside! Wow! Usually they have sesame or red bean or peanut or chocolate or cream or yam-which are all delicious. But oreo is something else! So tasty! 
 
Lots of other great things happened this week! 

First, L was baptized! It is seriously such an honor to be his 福音姊妹 (fu2yin1 jie3mei4= gospel sister= the missionary who teaches him) because he is such a spiritual giant. I can't wait for a year from now when he and his wife, who is also an recent convert, can go to the temple together. And hopefully their 2 daughters will join them along the way. 

H!!! I love this guy. We set a baptismal date with him last week and he is so excited for it.  He's our adorable 62-year old grandpa figure. And he loves to crack jokes with us. Last week we set up to meet with an recent convert at the chapel, and H just showed up and said, "Hi, I just wanted to come see where I'm going to get baptized on Mar 21." He reminds us every time we see him about "our March 21 appointment". He's great. 

 All the rest of our investigators are out of town for 過年 (chinese new year), which starts this Wednesday! YEAH! We are going have to eat so. much. food...... Pray for my poor little stomach. Hahaha! :D

Love you!
S. Murri!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Miracle meetings


This week despite only having 2.5 full proselyting days due to several meetings and traveling down to Taibei, we were able to see our investigator pool expand quite a bit through some great miracles and people placed in our path. 

Last Sunday as we were standing at the door waiting to contact someone who was referred to us by a member of the ward, we noticed a lady walking by on the street and said hi to her. She asked us (in English) if we needed any help, and we said we were just looking for a friend. She was really friendly and cute, and we struck up a conversation with her about why her English was so good. We ended up inviting her to English class, and getting her phone number before she walked away. On Wednesday she showed up at English class, and we were so excited when she marked 'yes' to the part on the English form about having interest in coming to church and 'yes' to the part about being willing to meet with missionaries! We stopped her on her way out after class and she said she would be coming to church on Sun! On Saturday, we called her and set her up to do a tour beforehand. During the tour we asked about her religious background, and she said, "I am a naughty Christian", which, she explained, means that she hasn't been very active in coming to church since becoming christian at age 16 (she's now 37). She LOVED church and all the members were super sweet to her. When we gave her a Book of Mormon, she said, "oh, do I just bring this with me every week to church?" Yes! Her name is W and we already love her so much!

The next miracle new investigator is J. I had a feeling several times last week that we needed to go to a particular street to try to find people, so we planned an evening to go there. We were knocking doors one evening, and J had just gotten home from work and got out of his car. We said hello and invited him to english class, which then led to a discussion about what we were doing here. Turns out that his dad is christian, and he is sort of christian but not really active. He has a great relationship with his family, and is just a really good guy. Near the end of our discussion, we asked if we could pray with him, and he accepted. Then we asked if we could set up a time to share more with him and he said, "of course! you seem like such great people and we've had a great discussion." A few days later we went back and shared a brief message with him and got to know him. He said to us, "I wish my daughters could meet you!" Yep, so do we! :D At the end we had a kneeling prayer, and he said a very sincere prayer. 
We're really excited for him! 
 

As far as our two favorite security guard investigators, H and Z, they are both coming along slowly but surely. I love H- we decided that if he were american, he would be the nice grandpa-esque guy in New York who sells hotdogs at a hotdog stand. Super cute. 

L is getting baptized this Sunday! He is so great- probably has more gospel knowledge than I do at this point! He is 4 chapters away from finishing the Book of Mormon and loves reading conference issues of the Liahona (the church's international magazine) and thought it was really funny when we committed him to obey and honor the law. 
We are a little worried about M- she didn't come to church the past two weeks. We had a good lesson with her this week in which we reviewed the Baptismal Interview Questions and were able to figure out exactly where she is and what she needs help with and the areas where her testimony is weak. Pray for her that she doesn't give up on herself. 

 God lives. He is my Father. Christ lives. He is my Savior. Joseph Smith's account is exactly true. I don't know everything, but I know enough.

-Alma 5:48 "I say unto you, that I know of myself that whatsoever I shall say unto you, concerning that which is to come, is true; and I say unto you that I know that Jesus Christ shall come, yea, the Son, the Only Begotten of the Father, full of grace, and mercy, and truth. And behold, it is he that cometh to take away the sins of the world, yea, the sins of every man who steadfastly believeth on his name."

It's true. 

Love you all!
S. Murri

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

How many different things can you make in a rice cooker?


Here are some of the highlights since I last emailed you:

We met two awesome new investigators who are both security guards, and both quite open to what we have to say (and one of the best parts is that we know exactly where they are every day during the day and can drop by anytime to visit them at work!)

I made cookies in the rice cooker with the cookie mix from Aunt Linda. Forgot to take pics of that one, but they turned out pretty good! I think I'm going to start a "how many different things can you successfully cook in the rice cooker" project...this morning I did scrambled eggs, which worked out pretty well!

We had a Mission Leadership Council meeting (monthly meeting of all the zone leaders, sister training leaders, mission president, and assistants, to receive training and discuss the mission vision for the coming month). Not only did we get some excellent training, but we got to watch the movie Meet the Mormons! Made me want to go to Nepal....But the neatest part of the meeting was near the end when we all knelt together as a group to petition the Lord for inspiration to create the mission vision. I was asked to act as voice. It was a powerful moment to all be kneeling together and seeking God's guidance for our mission. 

What do you do when your someone tells you she's in love with a man from Ireland who she's only communicated with online through google translate, and that he wants to fly to Taiwan to meet her? Imagine that Studio C skit of the guy emailing that girl in the alps or wherever it is she is, but change the language to Chinese, and you've got pretty much exactly what happened in the lesson with one of our less active members. (See Studio C "Google Translator") She tried to convince us to come to her house and be her go-between when he gets here and find out if he really likes her and if he will take her to be married in the temple. (he's not even a member of our church) Sis Pieper said, "well....yeah, we could come teach him about the gospel!" Since we're not allowed to counsel people on their personal problems (thank goodness!), we just encouraged her to pray about it, and if she still felt like this was God's answer to her prayer, to at least take someone with her when she went to pick him up for safety reasons. Let me tell you, missionary work is never boring!

We have a lot going on this week with two Zone Meetings to do trainings at, and a two-day mission-wide leadership seminar in Taibei!! This week is going to fly by!

love you!
sis murri

Thursday, January 29, 2015

On a quest to Discover the Taiwanese Mind


I just have to start by quoting the opening paragraph of the email that Sis Pieper is writing to her family, because it's pretty funny, and absolutely true:

"Our days have been full and rich lately, mostly because Sister Murri (bless her little brain) likes to think, and we are on a futile (essentialist) quest to discover the Taiwanese mind."

Isn't she poetic? I should also mention that she's 27, is applying to study for her PhD, and has lived all over the world and speaks several languages. And she likes quinoa, ginger tea, and having deep discussions. So basically, we're having a blast! 

 This week our adventures included a trip to an art museum, the XinZhu zoo, a daoist temple (which also included a sacrificed apple that the keeper of the temple gave us to eat. Yum), and asking literally everyone we meet about Taiwanese concepts of god, the spirit, what makes an ideal family, and pretty much every other topic you can imagine. 

We have been considering lately how cultural traditions and norms such as "face", "bu hao yisi", and filial tradition, as well as the influences of character meaning and even art play into their understanding of the Restored Gospel. We have learned SO much, and as we've started implementing small changes into our teaching and proselyting, we've seen an increased ability to connect to people. The Taiwanese people don't have much care for where we go after we die, the need for prophets, the concept of sin and forgiveness...their questions of the soul are just different. And we are determined to figure them out! In the prayer given in 1921 for the dedication of China for missionary work, President McKay asked that the missionaries sent to the Chinese realm might "have a keen insight into the mental and spiritual state of the Chinese mind". This is our theme paragraph because we are bringing it to pass! 

This week was pretty busy with two exchanges, traveling to Taipei for temple day this morning and a STL meeting last week, and specialized zone training. Z and L are solidly progressing, and we have a lot of faith that they will be baptized in Feb! As for new investigators, we are still on the low side.  I think 9 months ago that would have made me super stressed out, but being on my mission has helped me to realize that as long as we as the tools are doing all we can to be diligent, obedient, and qualified for the Lord's assistance, He will supply the materials in His own time- and until then I will be happy to just continue doing His work to the best of my ability. 

I have learned a lot about prayer this week. Prayer really is a form of work- I've noticed lately that my prayers have fallen into more of a routine than a powerful tool. So I'm working to change that. 

Love you!
S. Murri

Thursday, January 22, 2015

Go West young lady!


Hello from the windy city of XinZhu!

Well, all of my transferring west feelings were right- I am now serving in the beautiful town of XinZhu, which is about an hour and a half west of Taibei. It reminds me of my first two areas plus America put together- big, but not too busy- it really is a lovely place. And SO windy all the time! 

My new companion is Sis Pieper (who I actually met in the MTC- she is one transfer older than me), and we are the Sister Training Leaders over the XinZhu and ZhuNan zones. Working with Sis Pieper has been so much fun- we really get along so well. And she even likes quinoa....a large majority of our discussions have been about all the different foods we like to eat. :D  

For English party, we had a piñata, so the elders asked us to bring a big stick to hit it with. We decided our mop handle would do the trick, so then the task was to attach it to my bike (thank goodness for bungee cords!). I got about halfway down the street before I wondered why my bike was so hard to pedal- and then realized it was because I had wrapped the bungee cord around the brake wire, so my brake was engaged! Not one of my finest moments...

We have a couple of super solid investigators, and are working to find some more who will be baptized in Feb and March- please pray for our success in that regard. I heard from Sis Jenkins the other day that a ton of the people we had been teaching all showed up to church this past week- there are some really special people in Danshui, and I know that Sis Jenkins and her new companion will continue to see miracles there- it will always hold a special place in my heart. 

The problem with being a missionary is that it's pretty hard to explain all the incredible and spiritual and funny experiences we have because typing them out makes them seem not nearly as incredible/spiritual/funny as they actually are. Someday I'll just tell you them all in person. :D But know that I am happy and loving serving the Lord here in Taiwan.

Love you!
Sis Murri

Monday, January 12, 2015

"Religion isn't a hobby..."


Our investigator pool has dropped to about 2....yep. Happens sometimes.

Sis Zhong got a duanchuan to work with (a young member who will live as a missionary for a short time), so on our last night as a threesome, we ate cheesecake. We met with one of our investigators, W this week. We knew that his interest was waning, so we had planned to have a "make it or break it" lesson with him. I think Sis Jenkins' words best described what happened in the lesson: "He gave us chocolate and cookies. And then he dumped us." Hahaha! As we were finishing the lesson, I looked at him straight in the eyes and said, "One day, you're going to realize you need this, because it's true. And when that day comes, give us a call- we will be waiting for you." The spirit was really strong- I think someday he will accept the gospel. That's one thing that I learned this week. Religion isn't a hobby. It isn't something you do because it's fun or because it helps you even. "Religion" in its truest and fullest sense is just another word for truth. The gospel of Jesus Christ is about the truth of the way things really are and how to align ourselves with it. Which, when you think about it, is a pretty incredible thought!

Along that same line, this week during temple tours, we met an American lady who walked in and said she was having a rough trip and needed a place to just sit and think for a while. We directed her to the chapel, and later were able to have a long conversation with her. She told us that she went to church when she was young, but her parents became less active in the church when she was about 9 and she hadn't been to church since. Her siblings continued to go to church and went on missions, but she felt like abstaining from sex and coffee were just too high a price to pay. As we talked to her, it was obvious that her life wasn't where she wanted it to be, and she wasn't really happy. It is so true that the commandments of God are here to help us! I have never been more thankful for commandments than I have been the past year of my life.

Another neat lesson we had this week was with an less active member W. His kids are T and A, the ones we've been teaching. We decided that there is no way they can progress without him supporting and helping them, so we've switched our focus to him. We met with him last week and had a really powerful lesson- the spirit was just guiding us on what to say. It was amazing to see it work in him and see him humble himself and see that he really needs the blessings of God in his life. We are excited to continue helping him rediscover his testimony.

I also had a special personal experience this week that reinforced to me once again that God answers prayers. On Sunday morning, I was feeling....off. Satan was working a number on me, and he was trying all of his tactics- loneliness, homesickness, mental exhaustion, inadequecy- you name it. During sacrament meeting, I was pleading with the Lord for help, for a manifestation of His love. And it came- in the words of the sacrament meeting speakers, and the healing of the sacrament. It was so clear to me in that moment that God knows us. He loves us. He is waiting for us to reach out to Him, and He inspires others to help meet our needs.

So I guess the theme of the week is that God is real, He loves us, and wants to show us truth through His restored gospel! How blessed are we?!

This week is transfers- I think I am moving. I feel like I am ready, like God has somewhere else for me to be. Also, next Mon will not be a p-day becuase we have temple day next week! So, you'll hear from me next Wed! :D

Love you!
me